Miss Manners: ‘Mrs. Sallie Doe and the Late Mr. John Doe’ request the presence of your company’ ... really?

I was torn between amusement and pity. Assuming I could not attend, how would one direct regrets to the Dear Departed?

No One Knew I Was Trans In College. Then I Joined A Fraternity — And It Taught Me How To Be A Man.

That feeling of alienation kept me from attending more events. To my surprise, I still received a “bid,” a formal invitation ...